Yet amid all the horror and suffering, Rwanda can also serve as a model - for how genocides can be prevented.
One key lies in the work that Joelle Habiyambere and Marc Gwamaka do every day: education and awareness. As peacebuilding trainers, they primarily reach young people - the future of the country. After all, 70 percent of the population is under 35. “They did not experience the genocide directly, but they carry the trauma passed down from their parents and grandparents,” Joelle says.
In the trainings, young people learn to put themselves in others’ perspectives, to understand their thoughts, feelings, and actions. Compassion is essential, Marc believes: “When we lost precisely that - our empathy - we killed a million people.” It is just as important to train young people to become critical thinkers so that they can more easily expose hate propaganda. “When young people think critically, manipulation becomes difficult.”
Education alone, however, is not enough. For the prevention of violence, equality is crucial. When population groups are systematically discriminated against - when their access to education, jobs, and housing is restricted - action must be taken. “Whether in the U.S., Europe, or Central Africa, the patterns are the same. It starts with difficult living conditions,” Marc explains.
The 37-year-old also works in countries where people’s lives are already shaped by conflict, such as Nigeria, South Sudan, or the Central African Republic. “Rwanda should serve as an example so that other countries do not have to go through what we did,” he says.
That Rwanda has managed to move from a deeply traumatized society to a state of relative security is largely thanks to women, Joelle believes. Like her mother, many women took in children as if they were their own. “We discovered that we have a big heart - and that we are capable of forgiving one another.”